Sunday, March 30, 2014

LOVE and RELATIONSHIPS: What is Love and what it isn/t?

Love, is a purely emotional concept.  It is connection between the emotional self of a sentient being and another being or thing.  It is also the purest form of energy which tends to PROVOKE beings to do things which are considered impossible.

Let us see the concept in parts.
First we will see the connection of a Sentient being with another object:

This can be observed in artists a lot.  The connection between An Artist and His/Her insturment...for example, flute (as I am a Flute player, it would be easier for me to explain).
These connections are generally triggered from the physical realm.  For example, one could have heard another artist performing a flute recital or heard the melodious composition while travelling somewhere.  What actually happens, that the sound actually by-passes the thought realm and directly 'HITS' the emotional realm.
When this happens, the persons thought realm is, in a way, 'malfunctioned' and automatically goes into a state of mediation and gets de-linked from EVERY thought that ever existed in his/her mind.

That is when 'Love for the Art' starts to exist and literally, pulls the sentient being into that art.  The art becomes the purpose for existance of that artist and he/she finds the path to fulfillment by itself.  No one has to tell that person what to do...no one has to educate that person.  The concept of SELF-EDUCATION starts to exist and  noone can stop that person from gaining the knowledge.


Now, let us see the love connection between beings:

This one is a slightly complicated one as the Law of Free Will plays a very unique role in it.  Meaning of one siede connection : One of the beings has been HIT on the emotional level directly and the other hase'nt been hit for THAT first person, then it would be consider as a one sided connection or one sided love.

The law of free will clearly states that two wills can never conflict with each other.  In the above scenario, the will of the first person is conflicting with the will of the other.  The first person wills to love the second but the second person does not.  Here the conflict arises.  In this situation, it is required that the first person, the one who loves, withdraw his feelings, control his emotions and move on.

IF he/she fails to do so, pain and suffering arrises.  It is especially painful for the lover, because the energy is literally wasted upon the other person, draining the focus, attention and caringness for oneself.
That is why it is usually advised, 'Love yourself first..."  :-)

The two sided love, what can also be considered as true love, is the greatest of achievements that one can ever have.
In some cases, where love JUST HAPPNES, both the beings get connected on the emotional level, the thought level and then the physical level.  The connection and complimenting of energy on this level is so strong, that all the fear and other negative emotion based thoughts for the thought level literally get flushed out and one way or the other the beings find a way to fulfill the connection on the physical level as well.

Now, it is especially important to note that a love connection cannot be fully created and established JUST on the emotional level.  Things need to be brought in action as well.  If two beings are falling in love and due to parental pressure, for example, (happens a LOT in India) the female being is giving up on the relation, then that cannot be called as true love or two sided love.  The female in the example, is giving in to fear created by the supressive nature of her parents.  She is not trying to 'win the hearts' or attack the negative emotions withing the emotional selves of the parents in order to achieve the completeness of the relation.

In such a case, it becomes the responsibility of the other person to back off from that relation, practice self control in order to gain control over the 'loose emotions' and move on.  Ones with strong control over their thought system manage to do it easily, others, commit rape and murders.

The people who are EDUCATED IN ITS TRUE SENSE (we will see what true education is in future chapter) easily control themselves and steer out of the situation.  They are truly noble beings and achieve a lot in life...and also get wounderful life partners who they deserve.

Very unique concept, LOVE is!

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